Anupam Sharma, a postgraduate student from the Indian Institute of Technology (IIT) Gandhinagar, is carrying out a mixed-methods study to understand the everyday experience, including challenges, struggles and negotiations, of gay, bisexual and other men who are attracted to men in India, and are above the age of 40. The study has been approved by the institutional ethics committee.

Anupam writes, “Many studies have shown that growing older brings with it a lot of health complications in our community. People tend to feel lonely and depressed, with mental health further affected by ageist and disparaging statements on Grindr^TM and other dating platforms.”

He has already completed the qualitative (in-depth interview) component of his study, with participants ranging from 40 to over 80 years of age.  He is now seeking participants for the online survey, with a sample size of 200 (about 140 responses have been received as of February-end, 2019).

Inclusion criteria:

• Cis (i.e. non-trans) gay, bisexual and other men attracted to men, regardless of relationship or marital status
• Of Indian origin and residing in India at present
• Above 40 as of the date of taking the survey

If you meet these criteria, click here to take the online survey. It will take no more than 15-25 minutes. Participation in this research is entirely voluntary and can be terminated at any point. Confidentiality will be maintained.

This study aims to understand the facets of discrimination experienced by people in same-sex and other queer/trans relationships  because of their relationship status; and to examine the relationship shared by the parties to such relations between themselves and with other persons/institutions.

The expected results of this study are (i) a critique of Indian laws relating to marriage, based on the real-life stories narrated by individuals in queer/trans relationships, and (ii) a case for recognizing rights of queer/trans people in relationships by using the Constitution as a tool of transformative justice to invoke protections of substantive equality and human dignity.

The scope of the study includes both dyadic (couple) and non-dyadic (poly) relationships that are viewed by the law as falling outside the presumed-cis, heterosexual norm. These could include, for example, relationships of two or more (cis/trans) women, (cis/trans) men, non-binary people, or cis-trans relationships where one or more of the individuals is gay/lesbian, bisexual, pansexual or queer. Individuals who are/were citizens of India, including those currently residing here, and those who grew up in India and are currently living abroad, are considered.

Methods used will include In-depth Interviews, Focus Group Discussions and Observation. The nature of questions to be posed to the participants would be generally open-ended and analytical questions. Responses may be recorded either by audio/video or in writing. Ethical issues of anonymity (when sought), informed consent and confidentiality will be strictly complied with.

Illustrative issues considered in the interview/FGD include openness about the relationship with family, social circles, neighborhood and/or workplace, discrimination faced  in housing, banking, and other areas, financial dependence and violence (physical, sexual, emotional) encountered.

To learn more or participate, email sourav.law@gmail.com or call +91 74064 47531.